You discovered Out Your Partner’s Asexual – Now What? 5 union Tips for You I’m a heteroromatic cis ace woman whom doesn’t experience intimate attraction or libido, and fluctuates between being indifferent about intercourse being averse. I was asexual, I was in the relationship I’m currently in, with a cis het man whose feelings, desires, and need for sex are completely different from my own when I realized.